Conversation-Based Peer Coaching for the Most ​Meaningful Relationships in Your Life.

Let’s jump into the deep-end together and tackle the work of romance, intimacy, communication, and connection.

Meet Christo

Christo Lute has been offering (sometimes unsolicited!) relationship advice since he was a teenager. Today, he coaches individuals and couples on intimacy, bedroom power dynamics, dirty talk, and good, old-fashioned communication. Christo believes that advice is cheap, but questions are transformative. Be prepared to answer questions you’ve never thought about before.


Christo is kink and non-monogamy and queer-friendly. All are welcome!


Outside of coaching, he teaches Brazilian jiu-jitsu, writes poetry, and splits his time between Seattle, WA and Jackson, MS.


Do you want to engage more deeply in ​your romantic relationships?

Does it feel like your current relationship is ​working but the connection that you once had is ​fading? Do you and your partner/s want to grow ​your relationship into the thriving garden of ​experience that it can be?


I provide questions, resources, feedback, and a ​listening ear for those involved in the day-to-day ​work of intimacy.

How is this different than therapy?

I encourage everyone who is struggling in their ​relationship to find a qualified counselor, if ​possible. I provide peer-to-peer conversations, ​questions, and resources, for those who are looking ​to grow themselves and their relationships. Talking ​with a peer can provide much-needed perspective ​as we work through the complicated aspects of ​growing and thriving in relationships.

This is your one precious life. How ​would you like to spend it?

Book a 60-minute video conversation to discuss any aspect of creating ​deeply abundant relationships. I’m available to chat with individuals, ​couples, or anyone involved in your polycule.

Pricing

60-min Individual Coaching $65

60-min Couples* Coaching $85

*Dyads, triads, or anyone wanting to meet together